
As an Existentialist, my therapeutic approach is to be non-judgmental
and to deal with the present, the here and now. My approach is focused
and conscious-solution oriented.
The goal of Existential therapy is to work with a client to achieve
a level of consciousness based on reality. This requires working on our
unconscious areas of fantasies and images and to examine them in a conscious
manner.
Each person approaching therapy has his/her own idea of what she/he
is seeking or trying to overcome. Each person has their own story or
history of why they are seeking therapeutic help. They have formed their
own vocabulary to describe and understand their subjective life situation.
They have created images — such as victim, superior, sexual, racial — with
which to explain their experiences.
A client’s choices are often unclear to them as they struggle
with their life conflicts of anger or anxiety or feelings of alienation,
emptiness and inauthenticity. This is frequently expressed as “I
just don’t know who I am or where I’m going in life.”
My approach is to help clients explore these life situations, their
stories and their dreams and to help them create their own understandings
by providing a non-judgmental attitude and safe place for them to do
this. A client is seen subjectively and not as an object. This approach
is to help empower the individual to make conscious choices and decisions
about their life and to be responsible for these choices. They discover
their freedom to create and to choose.
The ability to make authentic choices empowers individuals to be able
to create their own meaning and purpose and participate consciously in
creating their identity.
Life is about choosing to Be .... to become a whole and authentic Being.